The Don’ts

On my walk this morning, I found myself thinking about inviting romance back into my life. My days are already packed, and the thought of adding a relationship often leads me to my list of “don’ts”— as in I don’t want needy, narcissistic, controlling, etc. As I reflected, I realized these negative thoughts create a barrier, making me feel it’s not worth the effort.

Manifesting isn’t new to me—I know the key is to focus on the feeling of what I desire. Dwelling on “don’ts” means I’m operating from old wounds, not healed parts of myself. If I carry this energy into manifesting a new relationship, I’ll attract more unhealed experiences. Ultimately, focusing on what I don’t want, repels what I do want!

Instead, I can choose to consciously focus on how I want to feel in a partnership. By embracing the feeling of being perfectly partnered, I can allow that energy to come to me.

So, goodbye “don’ts”… It’s time to focus on what I truly desire, be it in a relationship, professionally, or any other aspect of my life.