Stay the Path

Through healing and shadow work, we naturally re-evaluate our relationships and how we navigate the world. At some point, we encounter a chasm between who we were and who we are becoming. While our growth feels good, the emotional impact of self-love may not yet match the satisfaction of external validation. We might doubt that loving and honoring ourselves can be as fulfilling as having another affirm our worth.

Imagine a balance scale: on one side, our growth and self-worth; on the other, the weight of past validation. The familiar, though often dysfunctional validation can feel more satisfying, tempting us to rely on it rather than nurture our newfound self-reliance. We might even stay in toxic relationships, because they feel comfortable, despite being harmful.

If we trust the process and continue on our path, we redefine our needs, attract healthier relationships, and learn to engage peacefully with those who once triggered us. Crossing the chasm, we draw closer to loving ourselves and others without judgment. We give freely, and create harmony without sacrificing ourselves.

Our goal is to stay the path despite discomfort and fear. By radically accepting ourselves, we find satisfaction and peace far beyond what external validation can offer. With time and perseverance, we no longer need to learn through the adversity of toxic interactions, but can embrace the best in and for ourselves. We also attract and maintain relationships that are compatible with our enhanced self concept, so our internal and external world are far more peaceful and harmonious.

 

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